Hi Ray,
Welcome to our nightmare!
I can certainly understand your frustration, sounds like a scene out of the future movie.... National Lampoon's "Caribbean Vacation" . Perhaps you can recoup some of your lost expenses by selling the movie rights.
I'm teasing you a bit, but I do sympathize with you. What a royal pain to go through, not to mention costly. I'm glad you were able to salvage a great vacation and had a good time while you were there.
I've read a few comments about what a poorly prepared traveler you are, etc. There is some truth to those statements but it doesn't capture what I think your main gripe is.
Here's how this U employee would summarize your situation:
1-You screwed up.
2-We didn't care, we let you know we didn't care, and didn't work with you to minimize your losses and inconvenience.
3-You incurred a lot of stress and paid way too much penalty.
4-We've lost you as a future customer and as many people as you can influence.
So who bears the most responsibility here?
I say we do. We are in a service, customer oriented business. Without customers, we can have fun flying our planes around the sky but not for long. The concept should be to serve our customer. In another thread, I mentioned that the prevailing attitude at U seems to me "Who can I blame?" I believe it should be "what is the problem and how can we fix it?". Under the former attitude, it was easy to answer, "That old boy Ray forget his birth certificates, thats not our fault its his... yuk yuk yuk"
You know what? The company won the battle on this with "Ray", but we are losing the war. Any company that doesn't address the concerns of its customers and try to make a win-win situation out of a problem, is short sighted and doomed to failure.
Ray, U is in meltdown right now. Our morale is non existent. The disrespect and apathy you have encountered is what we deal with every day of our lives, magnified many times over. See, we too, are the enemy of this corporate culture. Most employees now hate management, but care about our customers. We are asute enough to recognize you are the people that make our jobs possible.
I suspect you would have been willing to pay a "reasonable" charge to reschedule your tickets. We aren't hauling widgets, we are involved in a people business and people screw up. We all do. This was not a situation that you were trying to exploit or rip off the company. As I see it, you aren't upset that you were unable to board the original flight, but more so at our attitude and inflexibility. I happen to agree with you.
I speak only for myself. I'm embarassed at yet another abuse of our customers. I feel it would be disingenuous to apoligize to you, because I can only speak for myself and obviously I was not involved. But I do think you were treated shabbily.
I hope you are able to obtain some relief. I think the only satisfaction you are going to get, is to publically get it off your chest. I suggest you pull the site and
rename it ASAP, because I believe you will be sued, post haste. It's fine to use the net to air your grievances, but do it wisely.