If it is not holier than thou then what is it? What is it when bible thumpers go out and do the exact thing that they are thumping about and telling me not to do? Don't have premarital sex! Don't be gay! Don't do this...! Don't do that ...!
How about this. If it does not directly affect you and your person .... Don't tell me not to do it! If I choose to bang some chick I met at a bar it is none of your damn business. If I choose to smoke a joint after said banging, it's none of your damn business. If I choose to take it in the rear after smoking the joint after banging the chick I picked up in the bar it's none of your damn business. If the chick got knocked up because I did not cover up and she wants to get an abortion (it is her body after all) it's none of your damn business.
If someone has the belief that they think they can tell me what I should or should not do with my person, by definition they have a holier than thou attitude. The only person I think I can tell what to do is me. I would never be so presumptive to tell you or anyone else what I think they should or should not do with their body, mind, soul or what ever.