That seems to be the attitude that is resulting in nothing really happening when it comes to the debt. Each senator or congressman says of their favorite program "It's not that much money anyway". We all know what the end result is.
The "Big Three" are Social Security, Medicare & Medicaid anything after that is what my Dad used to call found money. Left to grow in its current versions the above three programs will consume 100% of Federal Revenue in under 40 years. So in some ways all of the other programs are a nit.
We either address this right here, right now or it will be addressed for us just as it has in Greece, Ireland, Iceland, Spain and Portugal and if you follow international news folks are none to happy in those countries. So what's the answer. Well here is my stab at it in general terms.
Social Security - Hate or love it, it's not going anyplace. When the program was started the average life expectancy was 55 and you had to be 65 to collect. Now the average life expectancy is around 77 and the retirement age is 66 now? You don't have to be an actuary to figure out that this ain't gonna fly for long. The answer lies in tweaking the system, not a full overhaul. The retirement age has to rise. How far? Likely to 70. Probably "grandfather" in those who are in their 50's. Also I think you have to remove the cap on earnings which I think is around $65K in income. You're also going to have to means test the COLA as well.
Medicare - May have to be means tested as well. I do like the block grants proposal that was floated but I don't think either party has the belly for that battle even though it would likely work. Co-Pays will have to increase as well, maybe you means test them also. Fraud needs to be addressed aggressively.
Medicaid - I think we have to look seriously at how we take care of those who can't take care of themselves due to poverty. I'm real big on free markets and companies making a profit. However in the case of those who are the least of our brethren we need to take a page from history and find ways to invigorate and create Charity Hospitals to help relieve the burden on government. We are despite our challenges a wealthy nation and we should be able to take care of our own which we are but the way we do it is to damned expensive and more Government won't make it cheaper.
Lastly is the fact that it costs us ONE TRILLION DOLLARS per year to maintain our global empire. We can't afford it any longer. The days of being Barney Phyfe to the world must end. Why do we have something like 700 bases in 135 countries??? The military and State Department can't get by on half that figure? The time is long overdue to end our foreign entanglements. Strengthen our diplomatic corp and maybe we won't need so damn many weapons. Bulk up our clandestine services and work behind the scenes to thwart our enemies on their soil. The military is going to have to be revamped to address the changes in the world. Smaller, more mobile units designed to be mobilized in minutes to protect our vital interests.
The Better Way
Scrap Davis-Bacon and all prevailing wage laws
Get rid of Fannie Mae, Freddie Mac, HUD, and the FHA
Stop the bailouts of banks at the expense of taxpayers
Implement Paul Ryan's Voucher Proposal for Medicare
Reduce military spending substantially
Stop attempting to be the world's policeman
Kill the student loan "debt-slave" program
Pass a Balanced Budget Amendment
Audit the Fed then end the Fed
That is the better way. It will be difficult to pass those measure because each proposal has a mob of naysayers and constituents all clamoring "gimme gimme gimme".