Bob,
YES, I do know!
I'm a female. A more exposed gender who can experience rape, sexual harrassement, and assult. I am very well aware; I am in a mostly female profession. Everyone on these boards has either someone they know or has experienced one or all of the above.
You would have to take the word out of the English langugage and buy it to have the "rights" not to have anyone use these words in any other context than what you believe these words would be used.
Nothing any one says will minimise rape, homicide, insist, war. Just because folks come on this board and know of loved one or friend who has experienced any or all of the above, does not mean that no one can use the words anywhere in written form in anyother context than what that poster believes it should be used or not because of their own exposure in some horrific manner. This is a public forum.
I've said this before in previous posts, and I will say this again, stop with the sensitivity. If you folks have deeper problems with the above issues, then seek mental/behavioral health specialists. That's why they are there.