It's a real shame the aren't more like you out there. I am on furlough now and happen to work in a location where I run across a large number of both US & AA FA's. I can say that I have had some very interesting and occasionally insightful conversations, and met some pretty neat people in the process. But I have also noticed a disturbing trend,particularly among the higher senority crowd.
It seems there is a real entittlement mentality among a lot of domestic FAs. Having done this job myself in the distant past, I have no usions that it is a tough job at times. But it is also a great job that those not yet fired by this economy ought to be a lot more appreciative of. Free travel, finishing one's day in new or exotic places, and taking home a lot more money than jobs of similar skill would bring outside of an airline are good things. For every bad attitude I see blamed on Management, I can add without fear of contradiction one more perspective to the list of those in need of adjustment.
You are right. The Customer pays the salary. And all the whinning and excuse making in the world won't bring one more dollar to the airline when someone decides "US employees a bunch of out-of-touch babies. Hell if they'll see any more of my money!" I just wish more people saw this very basic fact as asuch instead of something in need of a union supported arguement.