You want "Big Government", you got it !
"Big government under Obama? Not so much:
The number of public sector jobs has shrunk by more than 700,000 on his watch. It grew by 1.75 million during George W. Bush's terms...
While Democrats are thought to be proponents of "big government," some new data about public sector employment during President Barack Obama's tenure is shedding surprising light on the subject.
Public sector jobs -- positions in federal, state and local government -- have declined by 718,000 jobs since Obama took office...
...Under his Republican predecessor, President George W. Bush, the number of public sector jobs swelled by 1.75 million"
"As for private sector jobs, a net 665,000 were lost during Bush's two terms. The recovery has also been sluggish under Obama, but the country has added 2.28 million private-sector jobs since he took office, the report notes. Some big companies that are hiring include Oracle (ORCL -0.53%), Dell (DELL -0.07%) and Amazon.com (AMZN -0.02%), Business Insider recently reported."
I am not sure how your "big government" fantasy fits into the gay marriage meme?