Piedmont1984
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So you disagree that it is under periods of distress, trials, adversity where the true character of a person emerges as opposed to a time of peace and contentment? It's when a man hits his thumb with a hammer, or has his prized car is run into in the parking lot, when he loses big in the stock market, or any other time of adversity when the true nature and character of the man is revealed.
BTW - I wasn't the one that claimed the east pilots lost everything and were somehow compelled to abandon their collective honor as a result. I was simply replying to a post that made the claim that not honoring one's agreements is understandable given the circumstances. My point was clearly to point out that honor (morals, character, trustworthiness) and adversity are not inseparably linked. The crucible of adversity does not change a person's character it simply reveals it. When a metal becomes molten hot, the impurities contained within are released and revealed where they were otherwise masked from view - and so it is with us.
I don't equate hitting your thumb with stress and adversity. As a handyman by necessity, I have taken my temper out on inanimate objects many times 🙂
If the character of a man is to be determined by how many times he has spoken the word sh&t - or wanted to - then your view of character and integrity is puritan and simplistic to say the least.