I have to admit, after reading your post; I had a subdued laugh and am repose!
For the record, I highly doubt I'm "socially disconnected". my parents were the first generation on both sides of the family to finish high School, and I'm the first (along with my sister) to finish college (I'm working on a second masters). my mother has 8 brothers. every single one served his country honorably (enlisted), and 4 were career NCO's. My only other sibling (my big brother) is a truck driver. If I did the math, I'd be willing to bet 90% of my cousins (and my brother) live in homes that arrived on wheels. I'm a very lucky person. no doubt about it. I was lucky enough to "run with the right crowd". Instead of smoking on the back porch, I played sports. I knew what I wanted to become. I knew about what it paid, and what lifestyle I could give my family from those efforts. While you were smoking the tires on your new IROC Z-28, impressing the cigarette smoking halter topped bimbo's in the Winn Dixie parking lot and throwing down a half rack of PBR, content with the life YOU chose, i was sucking it up preparing for another exam, writting another paper, and reading another book. And to get it done, I didn't take a DIME from my parents. you made your choice, i made mine.
Our ‘path’ may not be as different as you might think!
Now i ask you. should I give up appropriate care for my family because YOU chose your path? Who is the arrogant one? The person who delayed gratification, made some tough choices, and chose my course, or someone who was unwilling to put the effort in and now expects me to subsidize them?
We all have tough choices and my ‘efforts’ are not as diminutive as you imply. I do not expect you or anyone else to ‘subsidize’ myself or anyone else whom refuses to try to change their situation because of their laziness! ‘Hand-UP not Hand-Out’ has always been my philosophy. But there are those that cannot comprehend their own situation, should we attempt to understand and correct the situation or kill them?
I base my positions on facts. you base your's on blind emotion. you're on here enamoured with the wonderful socialized ways of Europe. I'll ask you to do the research. What is the unemployment rate in the EU? What is the take home pay of the average worker? What is the "per capita GDP"? How many cars does the average family own? what is the growth rate of the EU economy? how many Sqft of home per person in the EU? Have you ever thought that if you merely equilized YOUR lifestyle, with the lifestyle of the average Canadian or European citizen, you could afford to buy additional healthcare far superior to anything they have to offer?
Do Figures Lie or Liars Figure? Considering different accounting methods of reporting countries, which is more correct? We here in the US drop people off of the ‘unemployment status’ after two years and ‘mark’ them as ‘unemployable’ and are not counted in the ‘unemployment statistics’ even though they are unemployed.
But that isn't what it's about is it? when you look at some guy driving around in a nice new SLC (or better yet the guy I saw driving around in a DB-9 the other day ), do you think "dirty SOB keeping the worker down"? Or do you see a guy that likely worked his @ss off for year after year? Maybe a guy who had a great idea, something that made life better for all of us, and was willing to risk it all to bring it to market? Do you want to emulate him or hang him?
I see a person that has either worked his a$$ of to get where he is –or- a person that has had advantages that were not available to me –or- another scam artist. Either way, I would hold no grudge to him unless I had knowledge otherwise. Depending on his ethics, I would either want to ‘hang-out’ or refute him.
If his car had a flat and he was young I would drive by without a thought, but if he were older, I would change his tire (So what is the point you are making?)
Give me his number and we’ll do lunch.
Maybe that's why you're bitter and I'm not. Maybe you see the current situation and see no way out. maybe you feel you can't move on to better things and a brighter future. Sorry, I'm differant. I see new opportunities. I look at the past few years as a test. some challenges to overcome. Ten years from now, I'll look back and say "thank god I left flying". What will you be saying?
Not bitter!!! Possibly angry at the ignorance of what our country ‘is’ and what it ‘should be’! If we could step back and look at it ‘ALL’ without political/financial incentives (PORK).
United Airlines (JMHO) is in a very similar situation. If we can cut the ‘PORK’ and do the right thing, then we can grow and prosper.
(Taking bets on this one?)
Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get on with it. If you want a better life, then make it happen. I'm not going to do it for you, nor should you expect me to. But If easy is what you want, I'm wondering why you haven't already applied for citizenship in Canada. If not there, they have a social utopia with free healthcare and education in Cuba.
Thanks, but Ill wait until people with dissenting views (such as mine) are terminated to save the ‘Fatherland’!!!
It's comical to hear a liberal accuse others of "lacking compassion", especially since I've given more to charity EVERY YEAR for the last 15, than former VP Gore gave in his first year as VP. It's easy to be compassionate with someone elses checkbook.
People do what their conscious allows them.
I thank you for your generosity!
I have always given more than is allowed by the ‘tax code’, but never beat my own drum about it.
(OOPS?)
Funny, those who accuse others of lacking "compassion" typically do so with their hand out.
I have worked my ‘entire’ life and have ‘never’ taken unemployment compensation even though I was qualified for it. I have planned for erratic unemployment periods and have adjusted my savings/spending habits to account for it.
but one more time, please tell me the "facts" I've ignored to come to my conclusion.
As your diatribe is a mix of facts/conjecture/emotions, it is impossible to retort to your conclusion in this venue.
(But you already knew that)
B) UT