jalbalpa and dapoes what an interesting debate!
I remember so many years ago, my grandmother had this wonderful garden in her yard..full of every vegetable you could imagine..I would help her from time to time, and honestly it was some of the best memories and even thinking about it gives me a inner peace..
to me, my grandmother was a very beautiful woman, and so wise, I think I have not met another person that had her common sense and her insight..I can still remember hearing her singing softly to herself..in that garden on those warm and sunny days..
one day, in the morning.. in her garden I was helping her, I started to pull some dandelions that were growing near the old and worn fence, she told me.."no!"
a bit puzzled (because I thought they were just basically weeds) she told me not to pull them...she went on to explain to me that bees love dandelions, they are attracted by them, in turn will visit the garden and help make those beautiful flowers bloom(all along that old fence) and are pollinators for vegetables that grow in the garden! while the dandelions seem like a pesky annoying weed..actually it is not...actually what appears to be one way is actually another...the "weed" is helping the whole garden out...(working together but it does not appear that way)..
she went on to explain that people may do this too..
sometimes it appears something or someone is actually working against each other(such as..maybe even in debate)...when in fact they are actually in cahoots..
