I don't think I'm entitled to something that no one else is entitled to, given the situation just because they're not in it...YET. Just because it was unfortunate for me, that's what we're paying for and that's why we pay for things we may never use. Should this apply to maternity leaves and beyond also? I WISH I could get paid sick for a family member, but I don't. I wish I could paid sick for the bid leaves but I don't. That's not my choice, and at the same time, it's what's allowed ANYONE who would has a very good chance of facing the same situation. I have absolutely no intentions on quiting when it's working for me and isn't burdening my fellow employees. If it does, then I'd be gone in a heartbeat, and for the first year I thought AA would be history. I really don't care if it's this, PTO or whatever it is...I'll just have to accept it. I think it is the point you're making, however, that I have an issue with. This is my job, I enjoy it, I do a good job and I don't use my situation as an excuse to take more than what I'm allowed. When I was single and healthy, I understood what I was paying for even though I never thought I would have to use it (it's called being young and naive). It's like insurance or even medicare. We all pay, even if we may never use it but it's there for all of us. I've never been ill, rarely see a doctor and have never met my primary care physician because I haven't had to. Am I upset because I'm cashing in less than that person that might face a terminal illness? No, because it may happen to me. Or better yet, it may not. I may not be getting that extra 300 tax deductible, but I'm sure that family's paying on me somewhere. I can appreciate tightening down, but it works IMO.
No problem, regarding the aire of insensitivity, I wouldn't expect anything more.

I do appreciate your insight though. Some people just don't see why allowances are in place until it happens to them. Now I can appreciate why, in all fairness. There can be changes made to balance it out if it makes someone's skin crawl, but I wouldnt, just because I thought it was so unfair to those who aren't able to take advantage of it. I guess at this point, we have to agree to disagree.