We there goes the 2 ounces of respect I had for you. As the father of father of 3 daughters it is a word that is in the back of my head all the time and not one to be used lightly. I don't like "sumbag", but "rapist" is a whole different thing.
You are absolutely correct that it can have great shock value, but that is not always a good thing. Think of the times that one statement or one image can change history. The picture of the Vietnamese girl running naked after a napalm attack or the twist on Romney's "binders of women" come to mind. I know you guys think the whole world sees your group as helpless victims. Let me tell you they don't. Most I know look at all of us and shake their head. If this was told to the leader of the APA then I think it was a huge mistake.
I cannot believe you guys would defend that. If it was a slip of the toungue in a heated debate then I get it, but it should be acknowledged and apologized for .
We're going to have to disagree on this one... While I can understand your feelings on the matter, and sympathize, I staunchly defend the word, it's definitions, (not just the modern usage) and the user's right to free speech.
In my estimation, misplaced emotion and ignorance (not a pejorative, I'm using the word to make a point) are primary causes of friction in modern society. When a society bans words and actions based on arbitrary feelings that they could cause when the hearer is ignorant of all the meanings, we degenerate into we have today. I cannot speak freely at my workplace because with an innocent slip of the tongue, someone might be offended, complain and I lose my job. I cannot help an elderly flight attendant out of the van, because if I do not offer the gay flight attendant behind her the same assistance, I am guilty of "sexual harassment". I cannot even put an arm of support around a woman with tears in her eyes, who just lost her husband to cancer, for fear of someone else reporting me for "sexual harassment".
All this because we as society have come to believe that we have the "right" to take another's freedom, i.e. control their behavior because someone doesn't like how it feels when they exercise that freedom. I do not believe that these are the "certain inalienable rights" that our forefathers fought and died for.
Finally, I am sorry that your feelings are hurt. I was not there and am not privy to the conversation or it's context. And while I can understand a
request for "sensitivity", I stand by my original assessment. I don't think that it's worth getting all worked up about, just because someone is not familiar with all proper usages of a word.
Cheers!!! Keep the greasy side down!!!