I see the problem now. You are just so far over my head, that I just can't comprehend the issues like you can. Where I come from, when there is a dispute, the best course of action is to sit down and attempt to find the middle ground. I know, I know, we can't have any of that, can we?
So, if I understand you, the BEST course of action is to withdraw from all litigation, and BOHICA. Lets have the NIC AND LOA93 since it's obvious to me the company is in no hurry for a contract. Make us pay. I get that!
Thanks for the advise!
Driver B)