Wow boo, you are really well versed in this gay stuff. It's quite obvious you have an intimate knowledge in this area .......
How would you know? Just a question.
You seem overly taxed with defending yourself. You would do better just to shut up. Anyone not personally threatened by implications/accusations/etc, needn't ever fret over any such crap.
Frankly; I've never much been concerned with how people find love and acceptance in life. Life's far too short of a miracle to be overly much concerned with the intimate business of others. Those that can't figure out that literally billions of women exist on this planet just have my sympathy, but not my condemnation.